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Admission of Guilt

Can I tell you something?  Last week I let you know that I’m reading David Copperfield for Christmas this year.  I also said I would keep it to a chapter a day and that I’m not reading it with the Littles so we can do Jekyll and Hyde together.


Well, let me be perfectly honest with you here.  One, there is no freaking way I could ever restrain myself to a chapter of Dickens a day.  Two, I Really, Really wish I had elected to read this one with the boys.  Their loss.  For now.  We Will read it together one day.  Because it is, as all of Dickens’ works are, a miracle.

One of the reasons I love Dickens so much is that he always tells you this really sad, heart-rending story that seems to have no hope to it and them whammo!  Hope arrives!  Poor little David is Littlest’s age, so I can’t help but keep that in mind as I’ve read his (thus far) misadventures.  I want to scoop this kid up, cuddle him, and show him that there are people in the world who will love him for his own sake, just because he’s him.  Now, how can you argue against an author who makes you feel so strongly?  How can you not think of him as your Dead Author Boyfriend?  I ask you!

David Copperfield 1

But it is the hope that always glimmers over the horizon that keeps your heart from breaking into a trillion tiny pieces and your eyes glued to the page.  Of course, Dickens keeps it real, so the hope may dwindle or diminish and pick back up in some other way.  Just like in life, you rollercoaster up and down, never knowing for sure how things will turn out in the end.  But even if the characters lose something, they always gain something, too.  Just like we do daily. And because it is so real, it is hard to put the story down and walk away from it.  You just keep wanting to know what is going to happen Next?!

Dickens rocked storytelling.  He rocked description, both of setting and emotion; he rocked dialogue–sometimes people are talking and you’re thinking, “Why the hell am I privy to this conversation?” and thirty chapters later you’re like, “Oh!  I remember when they were talking about that!  So that’s why…”

He rocked wisdom.  Every single one of his books is full of gems that we use today as commonplace cliches.  And you might not even realize it to be the case!  For example:

My advice is, never do tomorrow what you can do today.  Procrastination is the thief of time.

Here is my favorite Dickens pearl so far from David Copperfield: Never… be mean in anything; never be false; never be cruel.  Avoid those three vices, Trot, and I can always be hopeful of you.

That is going up on my classroom wall.  Wasn’t I just saying yesterday to be kind and have courage?  See why Dickens is my Dead Author Boyfriend?  I am totally smitten with this guy.


I’m totally smitten with this book.  Listen, here is another beautiful novel to introduce your homeschoolers to Victorian England, to the plight of the poor and downtrodden, to the wonderful language of classic books.  I know I’m reading it to myself this time, but I can’t recommend it enough for children of all ages.  I’m seriously trying to figure out how to wind this post up right now so I can get back to reading.

I know.  I’m a mess.

Never let it be said that I didn’t share my passions with you.  It’s free for Kindle.  You can get all this goodness For Free!  But I must admit, you’re going to want to have this one on hand forever, so don’t rely on technology.  Find a good paperback copy and love it well.   Pick up David Copperfield.  Give it to your littles.  Read however many chapters a day you want to.

Leave me alone now.  Sheesh!  I’m reading.

Love wins,


Dickens for Christmas

I have mentioned before that I like to read Charles Dickens at Christmas time.  I’ve also mentioned that for the past couple of years, I’ve included the Littles in my Dickens reading.  We read A Christmas Carol together 2 years ago, and last year we read Oliver Twist.  This year, they are on a slightly darker kick, and they’ve decided that after we finish Something Wicked This Way Comes this week, they want to read Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.  I’m down with that.  Too many people don’t get the opportunity to read that book and take all their impressions of it from the various movies out there (my favorite of which is Mary Reilly).  So I’m thrilled the Littles want to read it now.

Dude, shave that crazy beard

Dude, shave that crazy beard

But I still have to read Dickens for Christmas.  One thing I’ve learned in the last two years is that I enjoy reading Dickens slowly.  A chapter a day?  I think I can hold myself to that.  So I started David Copperfield this morning.  Slipping into a Dickens novel is like sliding on your favorite, old, worn pair of blue jeans for me.  I’ve read A Lot of his books, several of them (think Great Expectations) many, many times.  But I’ve never read David Copperfield, believe it or not.  So I’m very excited to read this one.  Of course, I know the story.  But it’s kind of like if you’ve seen those stupid Hunger Games movies… Ugh! the books are infinitely better.  I’ll put it this way… I’ve read the Hunger Games series twice.  It is literally in my top 3 favorite trilogies of all time.  But I stopped watching the movies after the second one.  Truth?  I only watched the second one to see if they did something to make up for all the enormous gaffs in the first one.  They didn’t.

A Christmas Carol

A Christmas Carol

But don’t let me step up on that soapbox.  I might never come down.

My point is that reading the book is Always Always Better.  You know that, right?  So I’m really excited to be reading David Copperfield.  So excited that maybe, yeah, it’s going to be Very Difficult to stick to a chapter a day.

The thing about reading a chapter a day, whether it’s aloud in your homeschool or on your own, is that you are better able to savor what’s happening in the book.  If you know me, you know I read roughly 3-5 books per week.  I have since I was 5.  I love books.  I love stories.  I find the oddest times to read.  I listen to books on my Kindle when I’m driving.  I’m not kidding; I can’t remember the last time I heard music.  I listen to books when I’m cooking.  I sneak out of the house when it’s all rowdy and testerone-filled and go sit in the woods and read.  I read while I’m in my deer stand, waiting for deer to show up.  I literally Cannot Go To Sleep if I don’t at least read a couple pages in bed.  If I have a morning when I don’t have to be up moving and Martin gets up before me, I read in secret while everyone thinks I’m asleep.  See why I might have trouble sticking to a chapter a day?  I may have to read two books at once for the next 2 months.  Or maybe I’ll finish this one and read Great Expectations or A Tale of Two Cities again.

A Tale of Two Cities

A Tale of Two Cities

Ever read A Tale of Two Cities?  Wow.  Excellent stuff.

Wait.  Where was I?  Oh, savoring your book.  Dickens’ writing style can be difficult, especially for early readers and people who haven’t spent a lot of time with the classics.  We don’t talk that way anymore, and in this world of instant gratification, we definitely don’t write that way anymore.  Sentences that have more than 40 words?  Not just a couple of them, but most of them!  Yeah, we don’t have the attention span for it these days, do we?  Remeber, when Dickens was writing, there were no TVs, no internet, no social media with its limited characters.  Books were the most highly valued form of entertainment.  That’s why the classics are the best kind to read.  They don’t just rush through the story with as much action as possible.  They help you think a bit more about life, they slow you down.  So savoring them makes them all the sweeter.

If you are tackling a classic novel with your littles, be it The Secret Garden or Black Beauty or The Grapes of Wrath, going slowly and discussing Everything is the best way to make sure they’re following.  Reading the book twice within a few years (as we have done with Something Wicked) can help your child catch things he may not have fully understood the first time around.  If you’re reading by yourself and I’ve convinced you to delve into the world of Dickens, a chapter a day can give you time to think about what you’ve read, mull it over, and come to a deeper understanding.  And to email me, maybe, if you’re lost and need an explanation.  I’m pretty good at those.  When I’m not rambling.

David Copperfield

Come on, read David Copperfield with me.  It’ll be fun.  I Swear.

If I didn’t give you anything useful today, I apologize fully.  I realize I rabbit-trailed through this entire post and I’m totally owning it.  Okay, so I don’t apologize.  Sometimes I just like to let you in on what I’m thinking.

Love wins,


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