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Have a Haunting Halloween (with lots of freebies)

When the Littles were very small, we took them trick-or-treating for Halloween.  It was so much fun to watch them scamper from house to house, dressed up as Pokemon, Spiderman, Dracula, and (of course) zombies.  By the time they were old enough to really enjoy it, Big had outgrown it, but he still accompanied us on every trip, helping to corral his little brothers.  Since we live in such a rural area, we had to drive to the nearest small town, park at the library or post office, and trick-or-treat on streets we knew and trusted but weren’t very close to home.  It made for a fun family night, especially the time we parked at the library and saw a colony of bats swoop up through the trees.


But about 5 years ago, when the Littles were 5 and 8, they were both sick on Halloween.  Not knocked out, but definitely feverish and too ill to be running around the streets and spreading their germs to other unwary children.  So we came up with a plan.  Because Halloween is my all-time, favorite, bestest holiday, and we didn’t want our poor, sick Littles to miss it.  I spent the day planning a party for just the 4 of us –Big was away at college by then, so he couldn’t be here to join in the fun.  And you know what?  The Littles loved that party so much that given the choice, every year since we have had a party at home rather than going trick-or-treating.

Here’s how to have a safe, fun, candy- and treat-filled Halloween this year without ever setting foot out your own door.  You can invite friends if you want; we never have.  It’s become the consummate family night for us.

First, buy a couple of bags of candy varieties.  You know, the kind that have Tootsie Rolls and candy bars and gum and suckers all in one bag?  That way it’s very like trick-or-treating and your littles don’t get tired of having the same candy every time you let them raid the bowl.  We have a big, black, plastic cauldron that we put our candy in.  Then I create a scavenger hunt for them so they have to work to get it.  I don’t know about your littles, but mine LOVE a good scavenger hunt.  Sometimes we have it inside the house, sometimes out around the farm (we do that for Easter eggs now, too, which is a huge hit!).  Here’s a Free Scavenger Hunt Download for inside the house.  halloween scavenger hunt

Second, make some sweet and savory treats for the family to enjoy while they play games.


IMG_20151012_201340515WHAT YOU NEED:

4 Green apples

1 cup peanut butter

almond slivers


  1. Core and quarter your apples.
  2. Spread 2 teaspoons of peanut butter on the wide edge of one slice.
  3. Insert almond slivers for fangs
  4. Place second apple slice atop peanut butter.



IMG_20151012_201806298WHAT YOU NEED:

1 3-oz package cream or neufchatel cheese

4 large tortillas

1 bag baby spinach

8 oz thinly sliced ham

8 oz thinly sliced Swiss cheese

1 7-oz jar roasted bell peppers, drained and sliced into strips


  1. Spread 2-3 TBSP cream cheese close to the edge of each tortilla
  2. Layer each tortilla evenly with 1/4 of spinach, ham, and Swiss cheese
  3. Lay thin strips of roasted peppers along center of each tortilla
  4. Tightly roll tortillas into spirals.  Slice off and discard rounded ends.
  5. Cut tortilla rolls into 1 1/2 inch slices and secure with toothpicks.
  6. Stack slices to resemble a backbone.



big treat1 can green decorator icing

6 cups Rice Krispies

3 TBSP butter or margarine

1 10-oz package regular marshmallows

12 black jelly beans

12 small licorice strips

24 green jelly beans


Prepare the Rice Krispies Treats

  1. Melt butter in a large saucepan over low heat
  2. Add marshmallows and stir until completely melted. Remove from heat.
  3. Working quickly, add the cereal, stirring until completely coated.
  4. Using a buttered spatula, press mixture evenly into a 13 x 9 x 2 pan.
  5. When treats are cool, cut into 12 equal squares.

Decorate your treats

  1. With decorator icing, squirt green hair onto top of each treat.
  2. Place a dab of icing in the place of each eye.  Cut each jelly bean in half. Place cut end into icing.
  3. Again using icing as glue, attach a piece of licorice for the mouth.
  4. Dab a bit of icing onto both sides of each treat and add green jelly beans for ‘bolts.’


Swamp Juice


SWAMP JUICE1/2 cup small tapioca pearls (found in the baking aisle of most grocery stores)

Food coloring

4 tablespoons sugar

8 gummy fish

Seltzer water


8 gummy worms


  1. MAKE THE EGGS: Bring 6 cups of water to a boil and add the tapioca pearls. Reduce the heat slightly and boil the pearls, stirring occasionally, for 20 to 25 minutes.
  2. COLOR THE EGGS: Divide the pearls, with the remaining water, between two bowls. Add 4 drops of food coloring (we used 3 drops of yellow and 1 drop of green in one bowl, and 4 drops of blue in the other) and 2 tablespoons of sugar to each bowl. Stir the mixtures, then allow them to sit uncovered for 20 to 25 minutes. Drain and rinse the pearls with cold water.
  3. ASSEMBLE THE DRINK: Spoon 2 tablespoons of pearls into each glass and drop in a gummy fish. Fill the glasses with seltzer water, then add a splash of lemonade. Place a gummy worm around a spoon as shown.

Finally, play some awesome games with your family.

You can, of course, bob for apples–so long as you don’t mind cleaning up the mess.  This is a tried and true Halloween game that always makes me think of Charlie Brown and the Great Pumpkin and it’s tons of fun.  You can also play mummy wrap–using either crepe or toilet paper, dividing your family up in teams of two, and racing to see who can get his or her mummy wrapped first. (The mummy, obviously, being mum or dad.  It’s only fair. And hilarious.)

One year, I drew up an entire life-sized skeleton (times 2) and we raced to see who could put them together first.  You could also pin the femur or the skull or the tibia on the skeleton if you’re feeling brave enough.  Probably easier to buy one of those hinged skeleton decorations at Dollar Tree for these games, but I never try to make it easy on myself. (eye roll)  At least I traced the second skeleton off the first one instead of free-handing it twice.  Give me some credit.  Sheesh.

Another year, we bought a bunch of different pasta shapes and fashioned skeletons out of them on cardstock.  We dubbed the best looking one the winner.  But Martin didn’t get a prize.

One of the funnest Halloween games we’ve played was Halloween Headbands.  If you’ve never played the game Hedbanz, you’re missing out.  You put on the dorky headband, attach a card to it without looking, and ask the other players questions until you can guess who’s on your headband.  You can only ask yes or no questions.  And you only get one question per turn.  We had a Disney version which didn’t suit, so I made up cards with Halloween monsters on them.  We play this one every year.  In fact, here’s a Free Download of My Monster Cards, because I am nothing if not generous.

halloween headbands

There are better directions with the cards. I think.

Telling scary stories is another way to add to the fun.  Dim the lights, and spook each other out as best you can.  Here’s Another Free Download, with directions for a family round-robin-type story that you can all get in on.

scary story

One more fun game is to try on a monster’s point of view for size.  Here are some Free Cards you can download to get you started.  Your littles will have a blast thinking like a monster.

point of view

After you’ve played some games and worn them out, settle your littles in for a fun Halloween movie.  We love The Haunted Mansion, The Frighteners, Casper, Hocus Pocus, any of R.L. Stein’s Goosebumps movies.  Kid friendly but still in line with the mood of the evening.  We generally wind up our party with a marathon, and since most of these DVDs can be bought for $5 or less, they were a good investment.  Seriously, we watch them every year.

I already told you.  Halloween is my favorite holiday.

There are so many other activities, games, foods, and films you can use to make your Family Halloween Night fun.  I hope my suggestions give you ideas.  And I hope your littles have as much fun as mine do.

Love wins (and sometimes haunts you),


Story Time: The Little Old Lady Who Was Not Afraid of Anything

Story Time: The Little Old Lady Who Was Not Afraid of Anything - Crafts and activities to go with the picture book

You guys.  I’m the one wiggling with excitement right now.  One reason is simply that it’s October and October is everything wonderful.  We took a walk in our woods last evening and a crisp breeze cooled us and brought that spicy, cinnamon scent of decaying leaves (ever noticed how leaves are the only things that smell good when they die?) wafting into the valleys.  We made a family effort to collect the most beautiful leaves from the forest’s carpet.  Then, as we headed back to the house, the sun was setting over the field and it looked like someone had lit a jack-o-lantern candle behind the trees.  It was gorgeous.

The other thing I’m excited about is the new series I’m starting today.  Story Time is going to concentrate on one picture book per post and will be full of suggestions for lessons you can add into your homeschool day.  Or your fun Saturday with your Littles.  My favorite part of being a children’s librarian was planning and conducting Story Time every week, especially when my dear friend Abby and I got to work on it together.  I miss it.  So there’s no good reason why I can’t keep doing it, right?  The planning part, anyway.  I’ll let you guys play with your own kids.

If you haven’t read this book with your littles yet, I have to assume you’ve been living under a rock.

Just kidding.  But it is a very popular book for a very good reason.  It’s one of those books that encourages courage and kindness while getting your littles up and moving.  Do Not Read This Book Sitting Still.

When the boots go clomp, clomp, stomp your feet.  When the pants go wiggle, wiggle, wiggle your whole body.  When the gloves go clap, clap, clap your hands.  When we first started reading this book years ago, I was the one doing all the movements, and my Littles cackled every time, especially when I sang out, “WIGGLE WIGGGGGLLLLEEE!”  In a very short time, they were joining in the fun.  So that is your first activity.  Read this book With Feeling.

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Mom Week

Last week, I had a Mom Week.  Not a Homeschooling Mom Week or a SAHM week or a Working Mom Week or even a Work-At-Home Mom Week.  And I don’t mean one of those magically wonderful weeks where I got to hang out with my kids and love and cuddle and play with them without interruption.  Come on, ladies, you know the kind of week I mean.

Sage House Market craft booth (Abby's goods and mine)

Sage House Market craft booth (Abby’s goods and mine)

That week where everything you do is done for the family you have contact with for about 4 minutes a day when all you talk about is what you have to accomplish next and how everyone is going to get everywhere and everything is going to get done.  Yeah.  That one.  I would tell you all about it, but honestly, it is one ginormous blur that I cannot, for the life of me, remember.  What I remember most is coming home from a craft show with my bestie on Saturday night and looking around at the boys I hadn’t seen in two days and basically telling them good night.  Because even though it was only 9 pm, I was done functioning for the week.

Don’t get me wrong; it was a great week.  I had a blast doing the craft show with Abby and Sage House Market and a lot got done on the new house and the Littles had a great learning week.  What I’m saying is, I’m grateful for yesterday.

Because we’ve all had that week, haven’t we?  When homeschooling or public schooling or homework clashes with activities or work or big projects and those activities clash with new ventures and by the time it’s all said and done, something got Completely Neglected or someone’s feelings got hurt and you would love it if that had not happened, but you just didn’t have the extra 2 minutes during that week to fix the problem?  (Admittedly, I’ve had several weeks in a row like that, but this last one was the worst.)

So yesterday, I took a nothing day.  Not a vacation day.  Not a break from the family day.  A nothing day.  And here is what I did:



Serendipity-you know that awesome film with John Cusack and Kate Beckinsale in it–came on at some point yesterday afternoon and I Sat Down And Watched It.  My beautiful husband needed a little help putting up the band boards on the south side of the house, so I went and Held A Ladder.  My Littlest wanted to curl up on the couch and cuddle–I Curled Up On The Couch And Cuddled My Baby.  I cooked breakfast.  Martin and I cooked supper together.  I skipped lunch because I had no intention of cooking 3 times yesterday.  I watched the Broncos game. I watched some of the Bears game. (If you don’t already know what a Huge Football Fan I am, know that one of the reasons I married Martin is that he likes football as much as I do.  Go Broncos.) I got on Pinterest and found some new crockpot recipes.

I. Did. Not. Think.

I. Did. Not. Act.

In fact, I did so little that yesterday is kind of a blur, too.  The good kind of blur.

Before bed, I did do one thing.  I took all my guys outside and watched the lunar eclipse with them.  It was pretty awesome, because we got to watch the shadow  creep across the entire moon before clouds covered it up.  So at least we got to see the full eclipse, even if we didn’t get to see it uncover itself.  (Okay, I know that’s not how it works.  You get me.)  It was like having a mini homeschool science class in the dark, and everyone was awed by what we saw and learned.  Middle did his thing (he’s so like his mama).  He crept away until he was about 20 feet from the rest of us where he could be quiet with his thoughts.  I wonder what stories he was telling himself, but because he is so like me I know to wait until he’s ready to tell them rather than ask him about them.  He’s always telling himself stories.  So we aren’t offended when he breaks off from the crowd.

courtesy of earthsky.org

courtesy of earthsky.org

Today, I feel recharged.  I didn’t wear myself out yesterday and I got enough sleep last night.  We had an amazing day in school and now I’m Finally getting to touch base with my amazing readers.  For the moment, things have slowed to normal.  No, I don’t have time to sit down and watch a whole movie in the middle of the afternoon, but neither am I frantically rushing from one place to another.

Thank you, Nothing Day.  I highly recommend you to everyone.  Nothing is more calming than nothing.

Try it some time.  You need it.  You deserve it.

Love wins,